Same-Sex Couple
How are same-sex parents named on the final birth certificate?
Can an international same-sex male couple obtain an initial birth certificate naming the biological father and Gestational Carrier?
Can they subsequently obtain a birth certificate naming only the biological father or both fathers, with no mention of the Gestational Carrier?
- Yes. It is easier to name both fathers, because removing a parent without substituting a second parent is not specified in the statute and is problematic as a matter of policy in New Mexico.
Can the non-biological parent in a same-sex couple obtain a second parent adoption based solely on the fact that the child was born in New Mexico (i.e., neither of the Intended Parents lives in New Mexico)?
If no, will New Mexico Vital Records honor a second parent adoption order from another state and add the second parent to the birth certificate?
- Yes, but domestication of the order may be required.
Second Parent & Stepparent Adoptions for New Mexico Residents
Note: This situation typically arises if the child is born outside the state. The parents then return to New Mexico to obtain a second parent adoption or stepparent adoption in New Mexico.
Will courts in New Mexico grant second parent adoptions or stepparent adoptions to heterosexual couples living in New Mexico?
Does the couple need to be married?
Will courts in New Mexico grant second parent adoptions or stepparent adoptions to same-sex couples living in New Mexico?
Does the couple need to be married?
Egg and Sperm Donation
Is there a statute or published case law that addresses the rights of a donor over the resulting eggs, sperm, embryo or child?
- Yes, NM Stat.§ 40-11A-702 states that donors of eggs, sperm or embryos are not the parents of children conceived by assisted reproduction.
Traditional Surrogacy in New Mexico
While Traditional Surrogacy is not expressly prohibited in New Mexico, any payments to a Traditional Surrogate must meet the strict limits under the adoption statutes. In addition, the parental rights of a Traditional Surrogate can only be relinquished pursuant to the adoption statutes and, therefore, in some circumstances the Intended Parent may be required to share custody and pay child support.
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