Same-Sex Couple
How are same-sex parents named on the final birth certificate? Parent and Parent.
Can an international same-sex male couple obtain an initial birth certificate naming just the biological father? Yes, via an Order of Parentage that declares the carrier or surrogate not a parent.
Can they subsequently obtain a birth certificate naming both fathers? Yes, if they are married and obtain an Order of Parentage in conjunction with a stepparent adoption.
Can an international same-sex male couple obtain an initial birth certificate naming the biological father and Gestational Carrier? Yes, and without a court order if the carrier is not married.
Can they subsequently obtain a birth certificate naming only the biological father or both fathers, with no mention of the Gestational Carrier? Yes
Will Virginia Vital Records honor a second parent adoption order from another state and add the second parent to the birth certificate? Yes, and in this case the out-of-state court order does not need to be domesticated by a Virginia court.
Second Parent & Stepparent Adoptions for Virginia Residents
Note: This situation typically arises if the child is born outside the state. The parents then return to Virginia to obtain a second parent adoption or stepparent adoption in Virginia.
Will courts in Virginia grant second-parent or stepparent adoptions to heterosexual couples living in Virginia? Yes, Virginia grants stepparent adoptions.
Does the couple need to be married? Yes
Will courts in Virginia grant stepparent adoptions to same-sex couples who live in Virginia? Yes
Does the couple need to be married? Yes